"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Snooping. Is it ok?

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Is it acceptable to snoop through your girlfriends cell/facebook messages if you think she is flirting with other guys?

I think early in a relationship it's definitely wrong. But what about if a couple have been dating for over a year?

Would you marry a girl who was possessive about her cell phone and never left it lying around?

Anyone have any interesting stories about snooping to share?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think it's a sign of weakness.

If your woman is flirting with other men, then it's a sign that you should dump her. Not spend the rest of your relationship spying on her.

There's no point in stressing yourself out by maintaining a relationship with a person who you don't trust. Unless you're just paranoid in general.....which goes back to me calling you weak.
 
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ALL'S FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR
 
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