"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Snooping. Is it ok?

RickyBobby83

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Is it acceptable to snoop through your girlfriends cell/facebook messages if you think she is flirting with other guys?

I think early in a relationship it's definitely wrong. But what about if a couple have been dating for over a year?

Would you marry a girl who was possessive about her cell phone and never left it lying around?

Anyone have any interesting stories about snooping to share?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Iceberg

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I think it's a sign of weakness.

If your woman is flirting with other men, then it's a sign that you should dump her. Not spend the rest of your relationship spying on her.

There's no point in stressing yourself out by maintaining a relationship with a person who you don't trust. Unless you're just paranoid in general.....which goes back to me calling you weak.
 

Down Low

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ALL'S FAIR IN LOVE AND WAR
 
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