"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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snoop8 wit a new problem lol

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1.ok, now, i like this girl that says shes bi, i dont talk to her a lot, cuz i bearly even see her at skool, i only see her once in a while around skool, if im lucky, but also once in a while i talk to her in IM, thats the only place we get to talk for a while! ok well, i like her, but i know she likes this other guy, which i think is supposed to leave soon, i dont know where, or like if he just gettin transfered to another skool, or if hes moving to another city or something, ok well, i also now that she likes this other girl!!! lol so now, i want to talk her off that girl, like make her like me more than that girl! but well, i know ur gonna start saying, do this do that, and act c+f. well this girl is the kind of people that just hates ****y people, shes really weird, thats the reason y i like her now lol and i mean, she actually seems to be like that, cuz u can look at the guys that get the most girls at skool, they all act like that, and she just seems like she hates them!! lol i dont know y, well so i think i cant be like that, so i need to know, wat should i do? everytime i see her shes always surrounded by her friends and it gives me no time to talk to her, i just say hi and thats it, and well, i wanna win her real bad!!! lol now problem number 2.

2. ok, now i still like my ex lol but now she got another boyfriend now, we stoped talkin a while ago for like a month and then started talkin again, it seems all ok now, like just friends, but i still like her, and i told her to come over for my birthday! im just gonna give her her ID back cuz i took it before we broke up, so i could have a chance to talk to her. i dont know how to play this now, like wat moves should i do? i dont know! im really confused!

thanks Djs, hope u can help me!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by snoop8
1.ok, now, i like this girl that says shes bi, i dont talk to her a lot, cuz i bearly even see her at skool, i only see her once in a while around skool, if im lucky, but also once in a while i talk to her in IM, thats the only place we get to talk for a while! ok well, i like her, but i know she likes this other guy, which i think is supposed to leave soon, i dont know where, or like if he just gettin transfered to another skool, or if hes moving to another city or something, ok well, i also now that she likes this other girl!!! lol so now, i want to talk her off that girl, like make her like me more than that girl! but well, i know ur gonna start saying, do this do that, and act c+f. well this girl is the kind of people that just hates ****y people, shes really weird, thats the reason y i like her now lol and i mean, she actually seems to be like that, cuz u can look at the guys that get the most girls at skool, they all act like that, and she just seems like she hates them!! lol i dont know y, well so i think i cant be like that, so i need to know, wat should i do? everytime i see her shes always surrounded by her friends and it gives me no time to talk to her, i just say hi and thats it, and well, i wanna win her real bad!!! lol now problem number 2.

2. ok, now i still like my ex lol but now she got another boyfriend now, we stoped talkin a while ago for like a month and then started talkin again, it seems all ok now, like just friends, but i still like her, and i told her to come over for my birthday! im just gonna give her her ID back cuz i took it before we broke up, so i could have a chance to talk to her. i dont know how to play this now, like wat moves should i do? i dont know! im really confused!

thanks Djs, hope u can help me!
Step one...you dont use commas anywhere you want, please learn how to type, speak, write, whatever. Ebonics isnt cool.

Step two...talk to the girl that the girl you like likes. Get to know her...get to know both of them...have a threesome...awesome!
 

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You, Should! learn... (HOW) to; speak: and` "Puncuate" -english-. Also, please use paragraphs there is an enter button if your confused; then hit the tab once.
 

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ok, so how is that gonna help me? i talk and write differently from wat i do here!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by snoop8
ok, so how is that gonna help me? i talk and write differently from wat i do here!
Well we can't help you if we don't know what the hell you're asking.
 
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