"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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snoop8 wit a new problem lol

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1.ok, now, i like this girl that says shes bi, i dont talk to her a lot, cuz i bearly even see her at skool, i only see her once in a while around skool, if im lucky, but also once in a while i talk to her in IM, thats the only place we get to talk for a while! ok well, i like her, but i know she likes this other guy, which i think is supposed to leave soon, i dont know where, or like if he just gettin transfered to another skool, or if hes moving to another city or something, ok well, i also now that she likes this other girl!!! lol so now, i want to talk her off that girl, like make her like me more than that girl! but well, i know ur gonna start saying, do this do that, and act c+f. well this girl is the kind of people that just hates ****y people, shes really weird, thats the reason y i like her now lol and i mean, she actually seems to be like that, cuz u can look at the guys that get the most girls at skool, they all act like that, and she just seems like she hates them!! lol i dont know y, well so i think i cant be like that, so i need to know, wat should i do? everytime i see her shes always surrounded by her friends and it gives me no time to talk to her, i just say hi and thats it, and well, i wanna win her real bad!!! lol now problem number 2.

2. ok, now i still like my ex lol but now she got another boyfriend now, we stoped talkin a while ago for like a month and then started talkin again, it seems all ok now, like just friends, but i still like her, and i told her to come over for my birthday! im just gonna give her her ID back cuz i took it before we broke up, so i could have a chance to talk to her. i dont know how to play this now, like wat moves should i do? i dont know! im really confused!

thanks Djs, hope u can help me!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by snoop8
1.ok, now, i like this girl that says shes bi, i dont talk to her a lot, cuz i bearly even see her at skool, i only see her once in a while around skool, if im lucky, but also once in a while i talk to her in IM, thats the only place we get to talk for a while! ok well, i like her, but i know she likes this other guy, which i think is supposed to leave soon, i dont know where, or like if he just gettin transfered to another skool, or if hes moving to another city or something, ok well, i also now that she likes this other girl!!! lol so now, i want to talk her off that girl, like make her like me more than that girl! but well, i know ur gonna start saying, do this do that, and act c+f. well this girl is the kind of people that just hates ****y people, shes really weird, thats the reason y i like her now lol and i mean, she actually seems to be like that, cuz u can look at the guys that get the most girls at skool, they all act like that, and she just seems like she hates them!! lol i dont know y, well so i think i cant be like that, so i need to know, wat should i do? everytime i see her shes always surrounded by her friends and it gives me no time to talk to her, i just say hi and thats it, and well, i wanna win her real bad!!! lol now problem number 2.

2. ok, now i still like my ex lol but now she got another boyfriend now, we stoped talkin a while ago for like a month and then started talkin again, it seems all ok now, like just friends, but i still like her, and i told her to come over for my birthday! im just gonna give her her ID back cuz i took it before we broke up, so i could have a chance to talk to her. i dont know how to play this now, like wat moves should i do? i dont know! im really confused!

thanks Djs, hope u can help me!
Step one...you dont use commas anywhere you want, please learn how to type, speak, write, whatever. Ebonics isnt cool.

Step two...talk to the girl that the girl you like likes. Get to know her...get to know both of them...have a threesome...awesome!
 

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You, Should! learn... (HOW) to; speak: and` "Puncuate" -english-. Also, please use paragraphs there is an enter button if your confused; then hit the tab once.
 

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ok, so how is that gonna help me? i talk and write differently from wat i do here!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by snoop8
ok, so how is that gonna help me? i talk and write differently from wat i do here!
Well we can't help you if we don't know what the hell you're asking.
 
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