Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What about automated software?djSlvt said:Some of these are good: http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=snipe+ebay
They're web services. I personally don't use any of those, when I snipe I do it manually. Plus I don't bid often on things that worth sniping for.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You're an a$$ pirate?djSlvt said:Yay, it only helps that I'm a bad a55 pirate. Good find.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
True. But I can always change the password after.BacardiGuy said:I wouldn't trust over my password that has access to my CC info to some sketchy website or program, but that's me.
And he's a bad one at that :crackup:Teflon_Mcgee said:You're an a$$ pirate?
i got this now for my other thread.Francisco d'Anconia said:I use Auction Sentry.
Nahhh, there are some good aps out there. I'm not saying which because it's every man for himself when it comes to ebay.djSlvt said:Those are automated software, they're web applications. I don't know of any apps for Windows. Lags happen my man.