Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What about automated software?djSlvt said:Some of these are good: http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=snipe+ebay
They're web services. I personally don't use any of those, when I snipe I do it manually. Plus I don't bid often on things that worth sniping for.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You're an a$$ pirate?djSlvt said:Yay, it only helps that I'm a bad a55 pirate. Good find.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
True. But I can always change the password after.BacardiGuy said:I wouldn't trust over my password that has access to my CC info to some sketchy website or program, but that's me.
And he's a bad one at that :crackup:Teflon_Mcgee said:You're an a$$ pirate?
i got this now for my other thread.Francisco d'Anconia said:I use Auction Sentry.
Nahhh, there are some good aps out there. I'm not saying which because it's every man for himself when it comes to ebay.djSlvt said:Those are automated software, they're web applications. I don't know of any apps for Windows. Lags happen my man.