"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Aesthetix29

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posted a thread not long ago about some girl I was texting who lived an hour away .. Anyway to cut a long story short .. I was advised to next to which I have and haven't texted her for almost a week now, all good right ... And now she keeps sending me snapchats .. I'm not looking at them .. Is this her trying to get my attention haha. She's obviously noticed and is thinking why hasn't he texted me etc.. Hamster spinning! Why doesn't she just leave it there ... She's probably got loads of orbiters why keep trying to get a reaction out of me? I could be wrong and be way off. Thoughts guys?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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resilient

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If you next her, why feed into the snapchat attention pull? Just continue about your business.
 

hockeyfreak79

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It's just attention seeking. I've had similar where she lived 3hrs away. She was in town visiting friends going to a ball game. I tried to escalate as she was giving off a dtf vibe.
Woman get off on being c*ck teases, it's as simple as that. Move on nothing to see here.
 
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