"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This app is a giant red flag if you aren't looking to pump n dump. Grown women who use this attention wh0re and sext with almost any guy. These are the same women who get on Tinder, and fvck everyone they see. I know of several women who use Snapchat, and they all do this.

What makes this app a bit different from Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram is the way guys do things. They'll constantly send the girl things, and it's like the online version of shouting "HEY. Look at me. Look at me" and it validates the women more than a "Dang. I didn't know you were a model ;)" type comment ever will.

So what have we learned class?

Looking to pump n dump and she has Snapchat? Rock on :rockon:

Looking for an actual relationship with someone who isn't a wh0re? NOOOO :nono:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Solomon

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Meh I agree and disagree you have two types of women on snapchat

1. The women you speak of typically these are your major Attention wh0res though, who will post tons of selfies, drunken nights, going to the store etc

2. Women who use it to post once in a while, there some who post a pic of them at dinner or in class never post AW stuff and keep it to a low----usually it's those women that do dirt but they know better

snapchat is a waste of time but believe it or not you can actually use it to appear high value, I banged a chick I didn't know because she thought my lifestyle was fun....srs
 

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Wait, you can "meet" people on snapchat? I thought it was just a way for you and your contacts to send pictures to each other.

I've obviously never bothered with it but I pretty much agree with the OP, it's a red flag for someone you're dating.
 

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Building_and_Loan said:
Wait, you can "meet" people on snapchat? I thought it was just a way for you and your contacts to send pictures to each other.

I've obviously never bothered with it but I pretty much agree with the OP, it's a red flag for someone you're dating.
If you meet random chicks at bars/social media site and add them you can actually use it to display high value life, women are very nosy and if you're a cool dude who wants to have fun use it to your advantage
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bible_Belt

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People think that snapchat messages and pics disappear after they are opened, and they do, unless you have a 99 cent app called Snap Roll that lets you save everything.
 

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Solomon said:
snapchat is a waste of time but believe it or not you can actually use it to appear high value, I banged a chick I didn't know because she thought my lifestyle was fun....srs
I agree with this. A lot of guys are against social media and albeit, they're older so it understandable.

But if you use social media the right way, ie: Twitter, Facebook, Snap chat

You can broadcast to chicks your high value and broaden your options.

A true HVM uses ALL his resources.
 

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True to the above statement.

look at jimmy tatro on YouTube and all those other less famous people on their own channels. They are easily famous in their cities and chicks want them for all reasons. They want to be the hot bytch in the video who other bytches wanna be. Or they just want to be seen at restaurants with local celebrity dude.

then their fb pages has a ton of girls messaging them .
 
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