"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This app is a giant red flag if you aren't looking to pump n dump. Grown women who use this attention wh0re and sext with almost any guy. These are the same women who get on Tinder, and fvck everyone they see. I know of several women who use Snapchat, and they all do this.

What makes this app a bit different from Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram is the way guys do things. They'll constantly send the girl things, and it's like the online version of shouting "HEY. Look at me. Look at me" and it validates the women more than a "Dang. I didn't know you were a model ;)" type comment ever will.

So what have we learned class?

Looking to pump n dump and she has Snapchat? Rock on :rockon:

Looking for an actual relationship with someone who isn't a wh0re? NOOOO :nono:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Solomon

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Meh I agree and disagree you have two types of women on snapchat

1. The women you speak of typically these are your major Attention wh0res though, who will post tons of selfies, drunken nights, going to the store etc

2. Women who use it to post once in a while, there some who post a pic of them at dinner or in class never post AW stuff and keep it to a low----usually it's those women that do dirt but they know better

snapchat is a waste of time but believe it or not you can actually use it to appear high value, I banged a chick I didn't know because she thought my lifestyle was fun....srs
 

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Wait, you can "meet" people on snapchat? I thought it was just a way for you and your contacts to send pictures to each other.

I've obviously never bothered with it but I pretty much agree with the OP, it's a red flag for someone you're dating.
 

Solomon

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Building_and_Loan said:
Wait, you can "meet" people on snapchat? I thought it was just a way for you and your contacts to send pictures to each other.

I've obviously never bothered with it but I pretty much agree with the OP, it's a red flag for someone you're dating.
If you meet random chicks at bars/social media site and add them you can actually use it to display high value life, women are very nosy and if you're a cool dude who wants to have fun use it to your advantage
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bible_Belt

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People think that snapchat messages and pics disappear after they are opened, and they do, unless you have a 99 cent app called Snap Roll that lets you save everything.
 

SmooveMooves

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Solomon said:
snapchat is a waste of time but believe it or not you can actually use it to appear high value, I banged a chick I didn't know because she thought my lifestyle was fun....srs
I agree with this. A lot of guys are against social media and albeit, they're older so it understandable.

But if you use social media the right way, ie: Twitter, Facebook, Snap chat

You can broadcast to chicks your high value and broaden your options.

A true HVM uses ALL his resources.
 

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True to the above statement.

look at jimmy tatro on YouTube and all those other less famous people on their own channels. They are easily famous in their cities and chicks want them for all reasons. They want to be the hot bytch in the video who other bytches wanna be. Or they just want to be seen at restaurants with local celebrity dude.

then their fb pages has a ton of girls messaging them .
 
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