"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Snap out of it!

Roober

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Alright, just curious on some feedback here and curious how you guys snap out of a funk? I have tried the gym (which usually helps), relaxation, TV, videgames, etc. However, sometimes, I just get this unshakeable funk. It doesn't last long, maybe a couple hours tops, but it just doesn't feel right. Consequently, it sometimes happens when I have my boys and I may get short with them, Not good.

What do you do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MoreThanSmooth

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Normally when I feel like that it's because I'm over stressed from work or I need to get some more sleep. Sometimes just having a beer can clear that stressed feeling too.

Recently, dorky as it sounds, I've taken up painting models to relax in the evenings. It's just totally chill, trains hand-eye coordination and your artistic skills and you get something cool to look at when finished. Finding it a lot more relaxing than video games because although you have to concentrate it's not the same kind of concentration as an insanely fast paced game of Battlefield or whatever where you feel tired after playing a round.
 
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