"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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samaiel

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hi....

just sent the following sms to this girl:

"HI, IM A THIEF AND I HERE TO STEAL YOUR HEART. SEE YOU TOMORROW. KISSES"

she reply (1-2 minutes later):

"I WAS ROBBED....LOT OF KISSES.... SEE YOU TOMORROW."

now if i didnt knew this girl good enought i would thought this was a good reply.... but it didnt had a feed back i was expecting.... i thought she was going to call or reply something else... probably something mad....

this a friend i want to convert into a lover....

what do you thing of her reply... good enough or a bit zzzzzzzz .....

i a bit dissapointed...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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the_gunslinger

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i think your reading too much into it. see her tomorrow nite, do your bad thing and sod the little details, you'll only work yourself up stupidly over them.
 

Engetsu

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This means nothing. The girl's playing the game well since you guys seem on the same wavelength.

She replied with a joke which can mean two things.

A. She's interested and wants to appear as a fun girl or is a fun girl
B. She's not interested and is a fun girl

Either way, you can conclude nothing.
 

samaiel

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thks..
i forget to say, that we work together...

i thing is that last night i also send her a message and the reply was a lot better than today....

i know it doesnt mean nothing but i was expecting something more...

so tomorrow i going to played cool....
 
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