"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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samaiel

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hi....

just sent the following sms to this girl:

"HI, IM A THIEF AND I HERE TO STEAL YOUR HEART. SEE YOU TOMORROW. KISSES"

she reply (1-2 minutes later):

"I WAS ROBBED....LOT OF KISSES.... SEE YOU TOMORROW."

now if i didnt knew this girl good enought i would thought this was a good reply.... but it didnt had a feed back i was expecting.... i thought she was going to call or reply something else... probably something mad....

this a friend i want to convert into a lover....

what do you thing of her reply... good enough or a bit zzzzzzzz .....

i a bit dissapointed...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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the_gunslinger

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i think your reading too much into it. see her tomorrow nite, do your bad thing and sod the little details, you'll only work yourself up stupidly over them.
 

Engetsu

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This means nothing. The girl's playing the game well since you guys seem on the same wavelength.

She replied with a joke which can mean two things.

A. She's interested and wants to appear as a fun girl or is a fun girl
B. She's not interested and is a fun girl

Either way, you can conclude nothing.
 

samaiel

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thks..
i forget to say, that we work together...

i thing is that last night i also send her a message and the reply was a lot better than today....

i know it doesnt mean nothing but i was expecting something more...

so tomorrow i going to played cool....
 
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