"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Smoove move

GrowingPains

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Yo...

Having an Alexa or whatever voice-activated speaker would be so smooth.

Imagine walking into your apartment with a girl. Only lights that are on are the stove light and a low, warm lamp light in your room. You light a candle. While you're getting her a drink you say:

"Alexa, play 007." (your smoove playlist).

That'd be so cold. Need that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GrowingPains

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Another smooth move would be, "hey, make yourself more comfortable while I put some music on."

I find the whole talking to electronics kind of gay.
Also good.

It'sjust a voice-acticivated speaker. Why's that rub you the wrong way?
 
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