Smoothest way to react?

[Ballistik]

Okay, so I've been in this situation a few times and still haven't gotten it right. Exactly what is the best way to handle a chick calling off a date? For example, this girl I've known for about a month and I had something scheduled for tomorrow since Monday, but today when I got some I saw a curt little "can't go tomorrow. sorry." left on my AOL. She wasn't online and hasn't been since, and unfortunately I don't have her phone number (you'd think after a month, but once I got her s/n she was online so much it usually didn't matter....). I know she has a high interest level in me (she has a boyfriend, in fact, but agreed to this date and when I asked about limits, she told me "whatever he doesn't know won't hurt him"). The legitness of the reason can vary, of course, so I guess a few different ideas would be good. I've tried being angry before when a girl has done this, and that didn't really work, and I tried simply being like, "Oh, okay. Let's try again soon," but I think I come off as too much of a doormat with that. Thoughts?

Edit: I should probably mention that this is purely for FWB/FB purposes, not a relationship.

 

[AFK Protector]

Yea I have a thought. I hope she's just serving as a f uck buddy, cuz she will sscrew you over the same way she screwed her BF over (figuratively of course).

now to your question:

Er, she doesn't seem to have much potential like I said. So screw her and move on. She is not relationship material. Hopefully you don't have oneitis or anything ( I hope ). So just blow it off, next her, and find other girls worthy of the great Ballistik.

 

[Ballistik]

Whoa, yeah, shoulda made that clear, this is purely for FWB/FB purposes only. I don't look for relationships with cheaters. Period.

And (not to attack you, just because I'd rather not read more of it) if you're gonna tell me to "screw her and move on," well, I ain't gonna finish reading your sentence. If I was gonna do that, I wouldn't have needed to start a thread.

 

[AFK Protector]

Err...yea that was a pretty big piece you left out. Anyways, in this case, trying again is good. Once you get her in bed, make it good and you're home free.

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Disclaimer: AFK Protector has no experience with sex whatsoever.

 

[quest]

yeah, don't worry at all about the boy friend. he'll be cool with it.
infact, you should prob call him and let him know, cause he won't mind.

who cares about his feelings?

if i were in the same situation as you, i'd tell her that she's a ****en ***** and to get some respect for herself. and i'd tell him she's a ***** and to move on.

 

[Ballistik]

Quest, I think ya mighta misunderstood my question.....