Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Smoothest move getting #s?

blinkwatt

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Post your smoothest way you have gotten a chicks number. Im looking to spice up the way I get mine and am open to anything.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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akeith90

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I was talking to this one girl for about 3 min, just about how her day was and stuff (already knew her name). I pulled out my phone, punched in her name (making sure I spelled it right), and gave the phone to her. They should be smart enough to figure out what you want if it says their name, but there's no number
 

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I did something similiar,chick at work who I had to take a shot at. Took out my phone went to the contacts and hit add new contact and just handed her the phone saying "you know what to do". Anyone else?
 

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I was riding in a back seat of a car with a girl that has a BF. I just handed her my phone at "add contact" screen she punched in her name and numbers without any single word from her or me. My smoothest # close ever.
 

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My basic #get is taking my phone out of my pocket, and as I do so, say "Oh, before I forget, what's your number?" right in the middle of a conversation. Then, just type it in, phone back in pocket, and continue with the conversation.

It's only a big deal if you MAKE it a big deal.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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