"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Smoothest move getting #s?

blinkwatt

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Post your smoothest way you have gotten a chicks number. Im looking to spice up the way I get mine and am open to anything.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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akeith90

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I was talking to this one girl for about 3 min, just about how her day was and stuff (already knew her name). I pulled out my phone, punched in her name (making sure I spelled it right), and gave the phone to her. They should be smart enough to figure out what you want if it says their name, but there's no number
 

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I did something similiar,chick at work who I had to take a shot at. Took out my phone went to the contacts and hit add new contact and just handed her the phone saying "you know what to do". Anyone else?
 

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I was riding in a back seat of a car with a girl that has a BF. I just handed her my phone at "add contact" screen she punched in her name and numbers without any single word from her or me. My smoothest # close ever.
 

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My basic #get is taking my phone out of my pocket, and as I do so, say "Oh, before I forget, what's your number?" right in the middle of a conversation. Then, just type it in, phone back in pocket, and continue with the conversation.

It's only a big deal if you MAKE it a big deal.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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