"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Smoothest move getting #s?

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blinkwatt

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Post your smoothest way you have gotten a chicks number. Im looking to spice up the way I get mine and am open to anything.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I was talking to this one girl for about 3 min, just about how her day was and stuff (already knew her name). I pulled out my phone, punched in her name (making sure I spelled it right), and gave the phone to her. They should be smart enough to figure out what you want if it says their name, but there's no number
 
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I did something similiar,chick at work who I had to take a shot at. Took out my phone went to the contacts and hit add new contact and just handed her the phone saying "you know what to do". Anyone else?
 
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I was riding in a back seat of a car with a girl that has a BF. I just handed her my phone at "add contact" screen she punched in her name and numbers without any single word from her or me. My smoothest # close ever.
 
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My basic #get is taking my phone out of my pocket, and as I do so, say "Oh, before I forget, what's your number?" right in the middle of a conversation. Then, just type it in, phone back in pocket, and continue with the conversation.

It's only a big deal if you MAKE it a big deal.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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