Smooth as Anything
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How do you know when a girl is using you (in my case) for popularity?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I think the only way to tell will be the "feel" you get from her. Little things in the way she acts around you, how much attention she gives you, etc. I'm not sure if there are any universal indicators that she's using you.
I have found myself asking this once or twice. I've never really figured out an answer. Reason why is because I didnt really see why I should. I am in pursuit of a girl... for whatever reason it is.. she is just but another conquest to be had. Whether she is using me or not for whatever reason, as long as I get what I want. If I have a feeling she is using me, the even better. I now know of another way to manipulate her.
whatsupwiddat
Master Don Juan
All girls want popularity. All guys want popularity. So it's very safe to assume that she IS after you for popularity to at least some degree.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
DJ Girevik
Senior Don Juan
Hang out with your geek/nerd/goth/etc friends with her, if you have any. Use her friendliness toward them and if her IL seems to drop as an indicator.Originally posted by Smooth as Anything
How do you know when a girl is using you (in my case) for popularity?
fragmentor
Senior Don Juan
When ur in a crowd and she acts all happy to see you etc, and then when you're alone she pretty much ignores you.
I don't think it has much with the way she talks to you with or without your friends. If she likes you for you, she will care for you. She will show you and give you the small noticable details that tells you she cares. If she is using you, you will not see these small details. It's kinda hard to explain, but it has worked for me.