"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nosmirk

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now discuss the effects of smoking;

im quite sure there are few, if any long term benefits of smoking.

but exactly how harmful is smoking in the short/long term? im talking about in moderation, such as social smoking. not a habit or an addiction
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Durden Tyler

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Let's see, bad breath, you stink, yellow teeth, car stinks, house stinks just new name a few.

Long term - emphysema and lung cancer...oh yeah, elevated blood pressure.

I finally kicked the habit about eight months ago after almost smoking for twenty years. I really fvcked myself. I started when I was thirteen and thought it was cool. There are two things in life I regret and one of them is smoking.

DON'T START!!! Not even the one here and one there... It leads to a pack or two a day. It's fvcking stupid for anyone to start smoking. Absolutley no reason for anyone on this planet to smoke!
 

Throttle

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it gets very expensive, at least in the US, and the next time your localities face a budget crunch, they'll probably raise "sin taxes" again.

nicotine is strongly habit forming. as is the oral fixation. many social smokers are addicts in denial.

do you find women who smoke attractive?
 

nosmirk

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throttle, for some reason... yes

but they're usually stunning already even without the smoking.

eg kate beckinsale
 
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