"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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smoking weed with this girl

Eklipse

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Yea i smoke all the time with my friends but whenever i try to hook up while high ****s gets way to hard. i could easily hook up with her while being sober and i have before except when i'm high i get too analytical and self conscious while trying to make and move not to mention my conversation skills while high are way worse haha. Anyway what should I do, she knows I smoke a lot and she asked why we never smoked together and we should do it sometime what should I do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Supremo

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dude i know exactly what you mean! ive hooked up before high, but only because the chick and i were dating. trying to hook up while high (like at a party) is really hard because you second guess yourself and basically everything you said.

in your situation, i'd hook up with this chick at least once BEFORE getting high with her, just to break the physical ice barrier. once that's down, you'll be golden.
 

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yea its not as uncommon as you think. lol i also have exactly the same prob,
what i do to control it is have something else to buzz out on instead of the girl. i use music it seems to work a charm but i guess u cant bust out a stereo wherever u go.

and yea go hard have a mean sesh with her coz what iv experienced is if you are as wasted as eachother and u just buzz out and everythings allgood and the night just rolls on by :up:

p.s try not to do so many buckeys or lungs or youl get 2 wasted to be able 2 do anything at all lol
 

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Supremo said:
in your situation, i'd hook up with this chick at least once BEFORE getting high with her, just to break the physical ice barrier. once that's down, you'll be golden.
agreed upon =D
 
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