"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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smoking weed with this girl

Eklipse

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Yea i smoke all the time with my friends but whenever i try to hook up while high ****s gets way to hard. i could easily hook up with her while being sober and i have before except when i'm high i get too analytical and self conscious while trying to make and move not to mention my conversation skills while high are way worse haha. Anyway what should I do, she knows I smoke a lot and she asked why we never smoked together and we should do it sometime what should I do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dude i know exactly what you mean! ive hooked up before high, but only because the chick and i were dating. trying to hook up while high (like at a party) is really hard because you second guess yourself and basically everything you said.

in your situation, i'd hook up with this chick at least once BEFORE getting high with her, just to break the physical ice barrier. once that's down, you'll be golden.
 

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yea its not as uncommon as you think. lol i also have exactly the same prob,
what i do to control it is have something else to buzz out on instead of the girl. i use music it seems to work a charm but i guess u cant bust out a stereo wherever u go.

and yea go hard have a mean sesh with her coz what iv experienced is if you are as wasted as eachother and u just buzz out and everythings allgood and the night just rolls on by :up:

p.s try not to do so many buckeys or lungs or youl get 2 wasted to be able 2 do anything at all lol
 

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Supremo said:
in your situation, i'd hook up with this chick at least once BEFORE getting high with her, just to break the physical ice barrier. once that's down, you'll be golden.
agreed upon =D
 
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