"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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smoking weed with this girl

Eklipse

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Yea i smoke all the time with my friends but whenever i try to hook up while high ****s gets way to hard. i could easily hook up with her while being sober and i have before except when i'm high i get too analytical and self conscious while trying to make and move not to mention my conversation skills while high are way worse haha. Anyway what should I do, she knows I smoke a lot and she asked why we never smoked together and we should do it sometime what should I do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dude i know exactly what you mean! ive hooked up before high, but only because the chick and i were dating. trying to hook up while high (like at a party) is really hard because you second guess yourself and basically everything you said.

in your situation, i'd hook up with this chick at least once BEFORE getting high with her, just to break the physical ice barrier. once that's down, you'll be golden.
 

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yea its not as uncommon as you think. lol i also have exactly the same prob,
what i do to control it is have something else to buzz out on instead of the girl. i use music it seems to work a charm but i guess u cant bust out a stereo wherever u go.

and yea go hard have a mean sesh with her coz what iv experienced is if you are as wasted as eachother and u just buzz out and everythings allgood and the night just rolls on by :up:

p.s try not to do so many buckeys or lungs or youl get 2 wasted to be able 2 do anything at all lol
 

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Supremo said:
in your situation, i'd hook up with this chick at least once BEFORE getting high with her, just to break the physical ice barrier. once that's down, you'll be golden.
agreed upon =D
 
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