"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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smoking weed=confidence loss

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I have recently given up smoking weed and within a week i feel more confident much more. Has anyone else had experience with this? or is it just me?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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pot holds me back with women more than anything else. congrats on deciding to quit for yourself.
 
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I really don't think that the pot itself caused you to lose confidence. I think societies attitude towards pot made you feel like it's unacceptable, so once you stopped you felt more like a member of society.
 
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This should be stickied. Pot is the polar opposite of alcohol. Alcohol can take your confidence to new heights, and pot will make it fall lower than it's ever been before. HOWEVER. If you mix pot with alcohol in the right amounts, you can get the best of both worlds.
 
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really don't think that the pot itself caused you to lose confidence. I think societies attitude towards pot made you feel like it's unacceptable, so once you stopped you felt more like a member of society.
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Couldn't disagree more. The weed is COMPLETELY To blame. Its just a fact that THC has a very real potential to make one extremely paranoid and anti-social. Or on a lesser degree, just lazy.

It doesn't happen to everyone, but it definatly happened to me. Basically if something is slowing you down, essentially handicapping you towards reaching your goal... WHY CONTINUE DOING IT?????


Good idea quitting
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My DJ friend smokes weed all the time and he uses it as a social bond with many chicks in our group. It's a social activity after all.
 
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