“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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smoking weed=confidence loss

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I have recently given up smoking weed and within a week i feel more confident much more. Has anyone else had experience with this? or is it just me?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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pot holds me back with women more than anything else. congrats on deciding to quit for yourself.
 
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I really don't think that the pot itself caused you to lose confidence. I think societies attitude towards pot made you feel like it's unacceptable, so once you stopped you felt more like a member of society.
 
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This should be stickied. Pot is the polar opposite of alcohol. Alcohol can take your confidence to new heights, and pot will make it fall lower than it's ever been before. HOWEVER. If you mix pot with alcohol in the right amounts, you can get the best of both worlds.
 
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really don't think that the pot itself caused you to lose confidence. I think societies attitude towards pot made you feel like it's unacceptable, so once you stopped you felt more like a member of society.
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Couldn't disagree more. The weed is COMPLETELY To blame. Its just a fact that THC has a very real potential to make one extremely paranoid and anti-social. Or on a lesser degree, just lazy.

It doesn't happen to everyone, but it definatly happened to me. Basically if something is slowing you down, essentially handicapping you towards reaching your goal... WHY CONTINUE DOING IT?????


Good idea quitting
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My DJ friend smokes weed all the time and he uses it as a social bond with many chicks in our group. It's a social activity after all.
 
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