"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Smoking hot lifeguard - Need your take

Is she into me?


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mr. kennedy

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I showed up 5 minutes before they opened the pool to swimmers. I sat on the bench pretending to look busy on my phone. She was hooking up the plastic lanes. The bench I was sitting on was 30 feet long. She then proceeds to stand up 5 feet away from me looking at some folders.

I approach her and thank her for the tip she gave me last week. We start chatting for around 5 minutes. She is very engaging and is speaking 90% of the time. She says she's only been a lifeguard for 2 years, I then proceed to tease her and tell her I'm not sure I should be taking tips from her then. She giggles. We talk some more, I then proceed to say "If you have any more swimming tips, we should grab a drink and talk". I was going to ask for the number right after that line but she cut me off and said "Sure, I'll see how you do in the pool" and then she talks about something else.

Now, I'm not sure if she heard me about the drinks part or just brushed that part off, but that answer made no sense to me. At one point in the pool I was taking a pause to catch my breath and it happened to be at the same time there was a rotation change. Instead of walking by where I was, she took the much longer route to get to her chair. When I left (it takes at least 50 steps from the moment I leave the pool to the door of the dressing room, her chair is right in front of the door), her face was facing the other side for my last 30 steps. In the past, she always made that effort to see me and say bye.

On a related note, she isn't the 9 that I thought. She looks hotter from 20 feet high. More like a 7.75. She's also younger than I thought. Must have been 19.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Konada

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You should've asked for her number when you were leaving rather than having your balls tied up with her as you are now.

Hate to say it but my gut feel tells me she's not into you. She got what she wanted: Attention.
 

grayclif

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From January till now, almost a year, and you still haven't tried to get her number. Effin pathetic man.

What's really funny is how her rating went down after you blew your opportunity.

Stop wasting time thinking about these women. Just get the number. If she gives it to you good. If she doesn't then you know she's not interested and you can work on something else. A whole year bro... really!!!
 

Yewki

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Well good on the OP for finally trying. You have to fail to learn. Keep it up.
 
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