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Smoking fetish - do you find women who smoke sexually attractive?

Guitar_Whizz

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I don't smoke but I've always been quite attracted to women who smoke cigarettes.Visually at least, it's definitely a turn on for me. I don't like the smell or the negative health aspects of smoking, and I've never smoked and never will, but I definitely like the look of a hot girl smoking a cigarette (she has to be attractive to me....an ugly girl smoking doesn't turn me on).

This is known as a smoking fetish, i.e being turned on/aroused by women who smoke.

After doing some research, it seems that smoking fetish is actually quite common and a lot of guys think female smokers are sexy.

Just wondered if any other guys here also find women who smoke attractive?
 

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Hell no...I hate the smell and it sticks to their clothing and their teeth.

Not really a weed fan either for the same reason.
I don't like the smell of weed either.

I also don't like kissing women who have just smoked a cigarette - it's gross and is like kissing a dirty ashtray. The taste is harsh and lingers in my mouth, literally making me gag.

I do find smoking sexy from a visual point of view, though.
 

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I had a 'phase.' I definitely appreciate non smoking and being around people who don't. I used to smoke as well.

I will say that most of the freakiest and 'willing to do stuff' type of women I dated were smokers. Good time, not long time.
 

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I've heard of the smoking fetish, not my cup of tea though. Smoking has always looked cool, I guess.
Unfortunately, it's turned out to be one of the dumber things that humans do.
 

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I've heard of the smoking fetish, not my cup of tea though. Smoking has always looked cool, I guess.
Unfortunately, it's turned out to be one of the dumber things that humans do.
I mean if you 100% rationally think about what you are doing to yourself in detail there is NOTHING remotely intelligent about it.
 

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@Guitar_Whizz "Visually at least, it's definitely a turn on for me"

Comparable to the thrill we all experience watching fictional gunfights on screen, imagining ourselves as the protagonist(s), and those whom we find disagreeable in RL being the antagonists who bite the dust

It's not the sight of her sucking on that cancer stick itself that have your blood pumping, but your fantasies of how skillfully she might service you... As others have already pointed out, that fantasy doesn't take into account probable realities, like how funky her breath likely is, what her overall lifestyle is, etc etc
 

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Smokers have been romanticized in movies and TV, but in real life, people who smoke chronically often have this weird stench, a raspy voice, and odd wrinkles on their faces.

I am not attracted to that.
 
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