"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Smirk - a lot

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I've recently started doing this. At work, at the store, etc. I just walk around with a smirk/smile on my face, and women seem to like it. Most smiled back, even the ones who didn't were like "what's he up to?" And it gives you a lot of confidence. Not an arrogant type smirk, just one that says "I'm content with myself." I've done it so much, my friends have said to me "Are you on cloud 9 lately?" It's habit now.

There was this hot chick I walked past last week. I had what I call the "sincere smirk" in my face the entire time, and she smiled in return, almost a slight giggle. As I got past her I felt a huge adrenaline rush.


It just feels gratifying, almost relaxing. It can start an instant connection with a chick before you even open your mouth. That is my confidence.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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can you show us a picture of this type of smirk, because if we do follow this advice, which I am, gonna test it out for you boys ;P, I dont want to smirk too much and look like my head is in my ass, so if you have a picture of someone who has this type of smirk, please post it, thanks
 

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See the movie 3:10 to Yuma, in theaters. Russell Crowe's character has the perfect smirk down.
 

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Bruce Willis is the King Of The Smirk. I support this tip. Women will wonder what you're so self-satisfied about and assume you are good in bed.

To get the right frame of mind, use a mental trigger - like a funny event or something someone said that always makes you laugh when you think of it.
 

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I always have an image of Pierce Brosnan in my head to constantly remind myself to smirk like that. IMO he has the protocol smirk.

I've noticed about this smirking/smiling thing back in high school. My observation might even contain a racial slur, but don't think of it that way. There was this black substitute teacher who always looked cool. He didn't look like a wimp. He always had this smile to him and carried himself strongly. Everyone just called him "black guy" literally, and everyone would know who we were talking about because he's famous around the school for his cool and calm demeanor.

No offense if any of you are black, but most of my black friends when we're not cracking jokes with each other, have this "I'm going to fvcking kill you if you look at me for a second longer" thing going on. It's not a very inviting look.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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