"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Smirk - a lot

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I've recently started doing this. At work, at the store, etc. I just walk around with a smirk/smile on my face, and women seem to like it. Most smiled back, even the ones who didn't were like "what's he up to?" And it gives you a lot of confidence. Not an arrogant type smirk, just one that says "I'm content with myself." I've done it so much, my friends have said to me "Are you on cloud 9 lately?" It's habit now.

There was this hot chick I walked past last week. I had what I call the "sincere smirk" in my face the entire time, and she smiled in return, almost a slight giggle. As I got past her I felt a huge adrenaline rush.


It just feels gratifying, almost relaxing. It can start an instant connection with a chick before you even open your mouth. That is my confidence.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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can you show us a picture of this type of smirk, because if we do follow this advice, which I am, gonna test it out for you boys ;P, I dont want to smirk too much and look like my head is in my ass, so if you have a picture of someone who has this type of smirk, please post it, thanks
 

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See the movie 3:10 to Yuma, in theaters. Russell Crowe's character has the perfect smirk down.
 

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Bruce Willis is the King Of The Smirk. I support this tip. Women will wonder what you're so self-satisfied about and assume you are good in bed.

To get the right frame of mind, use a mental trigger - like a funny event or something someone said that always makes you laugh when you think of it.
 

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I always have an image of Pierce Brosnan in my head to constantly remind myself to smirk like that. IMO he has the protocol smirk.

I've noticed about this smirking/smiling thing back in high school. My observation might even contain a racial slur, but don't think of it that way. There was this black substitute teacher who always looked cool. He didn't look like a wimp. He always had this smile to him and carried himself strongly. Everyone just called him "black guy" literally, and everyone would know who we were talking about because he's famous around the school for his cool and calm demeanor.

No offense if any of you are black, but most of my black friends when we're not cracking jokes with each other, have this "I'm going to fvcking kill you if you look at me for a second longer" thing going on. It's not a very inviting look.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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