"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Smiling too much?

Jon55

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I've often wondered how much smiling is too much? I know a smile is like a beam of sunshine, but if you smile too much you look like an uber dork.

I do pretty well with girls and I notice I smile a lot, not like all the dam time but whenever Im either being sarcastic, telling a joke, or generally making her laugh. Basically whenever she's laughing I smile. Sound like too much? Just right? Not enough (doubted)?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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silenthill

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Dude I'm the king of smiling. Like literally if anyone looks at me i'll smile at them. I remember one time a cop pulled me over and I was smiling though trying not to and hes like "whats so funny" I can't count the ammount of people that have told me I smile to much. But its usually a positive reaction. Its better than looking like a hard ass all the time.
 

Obsidian

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Dude I'm the king of smiling
i smile a lot, too, but that doesn't mean it's a good thing. I think the op may have a point.
 

woods

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Its definately better than not smiling enough, though.
 

young_gun

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Hell yeah, smile as much as you can. Think about the coolest guys you know. They ALL smile a lot. I don't think there's too much thing as smiling too much. I don't know where this "stand in the corner and look tough" thing came from, but a lot of guys do it. Oh well, more chicks for us! :-D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Jason88

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I wish I had this problem. For me, it's a constant struggle to smile...atleast more often.
 

Serialized3

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One of the most natural players I know smiles a lot when he's with girls. So it can't hurt your game.
 

WhiteSoledShoes

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If the smile is natural, then it will give off the positive energy behind it. Smiling is contagious, and says nothing but you are confident and comfortable in your current position (again thats if it's NATURAL).
 
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