Smile! :D vs Sultry stare

[rhsarrow17]

This is something I've always been on a fulcrum about. David DeAngelo is my primary pimpin' professor and according to him, smiling too much may convey a sense that you're seeking her approval. In short, smiling a lot is wussy. He advises a skeptical look ("What are you up to, staring at me like that...") and an eyebrow raise. Maybe a "sly smile," as if you know something that she doesn't.

Since I became a member here, most DJ's on the site promote huge amounts of smiling. I understand you may seem more approachable or fun, but at the same time less mysterious and sexy.


James Bond rarely smiles, and I dont think I've ever seen him laugh.

What kind of/how much smiling is necessary for regular EC or just during conversation?

 

[squirrels]

James Bond may never smile, but he always APPEARS that he is, even though when you really look, he's not.

Like when I try to visualize James Bond macking a woman, even though you're right, he rarely smiles, I see a smile on his face.

He certainly never scowls.

 

[MindOverMatter]

He's also a fictional character that gets fictional pvssy only because writers create it for him...

 

[rhsarrow17]

Originally posted by MindOverMatter
He's also a fictional character that gets fictional pvssy only because writers create it for him...

that may be true, but he was invented for the purpose of being (and is) "the pinnacle of masculine adventure."

aka the sexiest man in existence.

 

[So Many Ways]

Well you don't want to look mean, that's for sure. I understand what Deangelo is trying to get at there but that my cause some to go to the extreme and "mad dog" your target. That's not what you want to do.

 

[smoke city]

This is true...but I know from experience that controlling your facial expressions in general will do a lot for your general social appeal. It's good to smile and laugh and have a good time, but I find people who are extreme and effusive to be overbearing and a bit irritating.

I think Deangelos point (and it's a good one) is to not try to get approval--but to be the guy whose approval others seek. Smiling a lot and extremely will make people feel good around you (and will make you feel good) but people will also feel that your approval is easy to obtain.

You can be pleasant--and have an appealing "aura" about you--without smiling like chester cheetah.

 

[rhsarrow17]

Originally posted by So Many Ways
go to the extreme and "mad dog" your target. That's not what you want to do.

of course not, I meant something closer to this: