"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Smile at life, it will smile back.

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First of all i am pretty new to these forums so be soft with me.

Last week, i have decided to "Smile at life"-To think totaly positve and be happy. Here are my results:

1.Starting with i girl who i was intrested in: This week, in monday i screwed up with the girl. At thursday i took the lead and she looks VERY intrsted in me
2.A test in english(i am from israel) and my project:
93/100 In the test and 100/100 in the project (highest garde at class).
3.A girl who i had a cursh on last year: Met her today, she made eye-contact and laughed from everything i said (even when it wasn't funny).
4.A test in arab lanuage: Got a 100/100.

At the bottem line:
Smile to life, it will smile back.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Simple advice, but right on the mark my friend!

When you are in a negative frame of mind, you get impatient, angry and make things worse. If you scowl at someone, they will think you are hostile and scowl back.

I find that people react much better to me when I'm positive and my life is more productive. This is my exact philosophy and it serves me very well!
 
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Yup, so easy and so productive.
 
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I agree. Your mindset is like a lens that you put on. It decides how you look at life, what you put into it and how you react to that what you get out of it.
So Yes; Smile at the world and it will smile back :up:
 
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Do you.. Yahoo?!
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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you gotta always stay up though, its easy to think like but you need to develop it into your mindset, if bad things happen, tune them out, but this is a start..

like they say, you do as you think.
 
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MightyMate said:
You been watchin 'My name is Earl' too much
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This theme was also presented in the movie Gladiator.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Word. This is better advice than 99% of the gimmicks on here. A smiling guy is a confident happy guy who wants to grab a girl for the ride and show her a great time. Girls love smiling and they will respond to that first and foremost above anything. Its truly contagious.
 
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