"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Smile at life, it will smile back.

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First of all i am pretty new to these forums so be soft with me.

Last week, i have decided to "Smile at life"-To think totaly positve and be happy. Here are my results:

1.Starting with i girl who i was intrested in: This week, in monday i screwed up with the girl. At thursday i took the lead and she looks VERY intrsted in me
2.A test in english(i am from israel) and my project:
93/100 In the test and 100/100 in the project (highest garde at class).
3.A girl who i had a cursh on last year: Met her today, she made eye-contact and laughed from everything i said (even when it wasn't funny).
4.A test in arab lanuage: Got a 100/100.

At the bottem line:
Smile to life, it will smile back.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Simple advice, but right on the mark my friend!

When you are in a negative frame of mind, you get impatient, angry and make things worse. If you scowl at someone, they will think you are hostile and scowl back.

I find that people react much better to me when I'm positive and my life is more productive. This is my exact philosophy and it serves me very well!
 
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Yup, so easy and so productive.
 
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I agree. Your mindset is like a lens that you put on. It decides how you look at life, what you put into it and how you react to that what you get out of it.
So Yes; Smile at the world and it will smile back :up:
 
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Do you.. Yahoo?!
:D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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you gotta always stay up though, its easy to think like but you need to develop it into your mindset, if bad things happen, tune them out, but this is a start..

like they say, you do as you think.
 
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MightyMate said:
You been watchin 'My name is Earl' too much
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This theme was also presented in the movie Gladiator.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Word. This is better advice than 99% of the gimmicks on here. A smiling guy is a confident happy guy who wants to grab a girl for the ride and show her a great time. Girls love smiling and they will respond to that first and foremost above anything. Its truly contagious.
 
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