"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Smart shoes

Darles Chickens

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So in complete contrast to Desdinovas 'fvucking shoes' thread i actually need some advice about buying some smart shoes to go with a suit i just got.

The colour of the suit is a dark grey and i was going to go with black shoes but also thought about purchasing a pair of smart brown instead of or also, maybe even some brogues. If i go with the brown is it important to match the darkness of the brown with the colour of the suit or go with a lighter shade?

Am sure there are some guys on the forum who've got a little style about them. Any advice would be sweet.

DC
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WaterTiger

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With a gray suit you weasr black or gray shoes, NOT brown! If you get grey shoes get darker or same color as the suit. Can't go wrong with black...unless it's a blue suit.

Stick with gray & black suits and you'll only have to buy 1 pair of black dress shoes. Keep them SHINY! Polish your shoes! 10 minutes once a week to keep them glowing. Dirty shoes are a turn off.
 

Hughman

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Smart black leathers, preferably Italian made, are the way to go. Go into any decent shoe store and get an assistant to help you out. Go in with your suit as well.
 
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