"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Smart shoes

Darles Chickens

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So in complete contrast to Desdinovas 'fvucking shoes' thread i actually need some advice about buying some smart shoes to go with a suit i just got.

The colour of the suit is a dark grey and i was going to go with black shoes but also thought about purchasing a pair of smart brown instead of or also, maybe even some brogues. If i go with the brown is it important to match the darkness of the brown with the colour of the suit or go with a lighter shade?

Am sure there are some guys on the forum who've got a little style about them. Any advice would be sweet.

DC
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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WaterTiger

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With a gray suit you weasr black or gray shoes, NOT brown! If you get grey shoes get darker or same color as the suit. Can't go wrong with black...unless it's a blue suit.

Stick with gray & black suits and you'll only have to buy 1 pair of black dress shoes. Keep them SHINY! Polish your shoes! 10 minutes once a week to keep them glowing. Dirty shoes are a turn off.
 

Hughman

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Smart black leathers, preferably Italian made, are the way to go. Go into any decent shoe store and get an assistant to help you out. Go in with your suit as well.
 
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