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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Smart shoes

Darles Chickens

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So in complete contrast to Desdinovas 'fvucking shoes' thread i actually need some advice about buying some smart shoes to go with a suit i just got.

The colour of the suit is a dark grey and i was going to go with black shoes but also thought about purchasing a pair of smart brown instead of or also, maybe even some brogues. If i go with the brown is it important to match the darkness of the brown with the colour of the suit or go with a lighter shade?

Am sure there are some guys on the forum who've got a little style about them. Any advice would be sweet.

DC
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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WaterTiger

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With a gray suit you weasr black or gray shoes, NOT brown! If you get grey shoes get darker or same color as the suit. Can't go wrong with black...unless it's a blue suit.

Stick with gray & black suits and you'll only have to buy 1 pair of black dress shoes. Keep them SHINY! Polish your shoes! 10 minutes once a week to keep them glowing. Dirty shoes are a turn off.
 

Hughman

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Smart black leathers, preferably Italian made, are the way to go. Go into any decent shoe store and get an assistant to help you out. Go in with your suit as well.
 
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