"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Smart shoes

Darles Chickens

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So in complete contrast to Desdinovas 'fvucking shoes' thread i actually need some advice about buying some smart shoes to go with a suit i just got.

The colour of the suit is a dark grey and i was going to go with black shoes but also thought about purchasing a pair of smart brown instead of or also, maybe even some brogues. If i go with the brown is it important to match the darkness of the brown with the colour of the suit or go with a lighter shade?

Am sure there are some guys on the forum who've got a little style about them. Any advice would be sweet.

DC
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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WaterTiger

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With a gray suit you weasr black or gray shoes, NOT brown! If you get grey shoes get darker or same color as the suit. Can't go wrong with black...unless it's a blue suit.

Stick with gray & black suits and you'll only have to buy 1 pair of black dress shoes. Keep them SHINY! Polish your shoes! 10 minutes once a week to keep them glowing. Dirty shoes are a turn off.
 

Hughman

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Smart black leathers, preferably Italian made, are the way to go. Go into any decent shoe store and get an assistant to help you out. Go in with your suit as well.
 
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