"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Smart, or Petty?

WesCottII

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Recently, my Aunt and her husband got divorced. She's in real trouble now, he, as an accountant has tied up all the finances and she has no money, nor a house.

Now, they were reasonably well off, on around £100 000/$200 000 a year, but towards the end of the relationship, she started getting plastic surgery...going out to parties, not coming home, texting like a teenager, at 52 years old. He's a smart guy and figured out something was going off, so took all the finances.

I don't like the guy but he took care of her 4 kids when they got together, and raised them with a father figure. Her desire to "move up the social ladder" has landed her in hot water.

Opinions? was he right in tying up all the money, or would you just have walked? Tried to fix it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sav

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he was right in doing what he did...

harsh? perhaps...

but it was her that changed her behavior.. not him.. he was just responding to her actions... good for him... i would have done the same...
 

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He was right. Sounds like she'd waste it anyway.
 

Mr. Wise

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All due respect for you and your aunt but the guy did what he had to do - no ifs, ands or buts. Cougars can be as vicious as the kitties too - sometimes moreso as this case suggests. However, the law protects these women - it's called ALIMONY. The law says, she's entitled to the same "way of life" and half his assets. That is of course unless she signed a prenuptual agreement. In that case, she dug her own grave.
 

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Let the stupid hor die in a gutter. How the f*ck could you actually feel sorry for that lady? Are you forgetting all of your own experiences with "women"? Damn, real men aren't supposed to be so easily swayed by sympathy. Seriously, put the b1tch completely out of your mind. She isn't worth your worry.

heh, Your uncle sounds like he's probably one of the guys who reads this forum.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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