VikingKing
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Are any of you attracted to intellectual women? If not, or if so, why?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Mike32ct
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Absolutely. I love intelligent women.
I actually think intelligent women are BETTER in the sack than average intelligence or even airhead types. Bright women have deeper fantasies that they want to act out.
Don't think for one second that that nerdy girl or brainy lady with glasses isn't a total freak behind closed doors. She probably is. Intelligent women are just better at hiding it.
And sex stuff aside, I don't enjoy fluff talk that much. I like in-depth conversations with intelligent females.
But I've given up on ever meeting one. While I've hooked up with a few on vacation, finding one to date in real life has proven very difficult.
I actually think intelligent women are BETTER in the sack than average intelligence or even airhead types. Bright women have deeper fantasies that they want to act out.
Don't think for one second that that nerdy girl or brainy lady with glasses isn't a total freak behind closed doors. She probably is. Intelligent women are just better at hiding it.
And sex stuff aside, I don't enjoy fluff talk that much. I like in-depth conversations with intelligent females.
But I've given up on ever meeting one. While I've hooked up with a few on vacation, finding one to date in real life has proven very difficult.
JohnChops
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hellsyes! my girlfriend is majoring in the same thing as me and is just as smart, if not smarter. I love it, no one understands my science humor :/ Also agree with mike, i thought this girl was NOT a freak until i got her clothes off and she went 100% freakshow on me. it was awesome
searching solace
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Of course intelligence is an attractive trait. The ability to be able to have an in-depth and intellectual conversation with a girl is very appealing; even more so if they can challenge your point of view.
There's nothing more tedious than a girl who can't/won't talk about anything more than food, gossip and TV.
There's nothing more tedious than a girl who can't/won't talk about anything more than food, gossip and TV.
VladPatton
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No, not too smart. A smart girl has greater potential to fück your world up real fast. Not to mention she's probably waving the feminist flag high and proud. I don't plan on talking about deep thoughts, money or dark matter with a woman. Been there, done that, and it was a complete waste of time. Do that with your boys over a beer.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Uncharted
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Love em. They tend not to play as many games.
JohnChops
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Bleh correlations don't be squat. Just because something is correlated does not mean they are relatable by cause and effect. E.g. this girl is feminine therefore she is smart.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
VikingKing
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I don't think he meant that because a woman is feminine, means she is intelligent.JohnChops said:
DonJuanit0
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After being in a LTR with an immature, not the sharpest tool in the shed, 19 years old girl, I have began to adore smart women!
Like searching solace said, having an in-depth and intellectual conversation with a girl is very appealing; even more so if they can challenge your point of view.
Like searching solace said, having an in-depth and intellectual conversation with a girl is very appealing; even more so if they can challenge your point of view.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.