VikingKing
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Are any of you attracted to intellectual women? If not, or if so, why?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Smart girls
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Mike32ct
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Absolutely. I love intelligent women.
I actually think intelligent women are BETTER in the sack than average intelligence or even airhead types. Bright women have deeper fantasies that they want to act out.
Don't think for one second that that nerdy girl or brainy lady with glasses isn't a total freak behind closed doors. She probably is. Intelligent women are just better at hiding it.
And sex stuff aside, I don't enjoy fluff talk that much. I like in-depth conversations with intelligent females.
But I've given up on ever meeting one. While I've hooked up with a few on vacation, finding one to date in real life has proven very difficult.
I actually think intelligent women are BETTER in the sack than average intelligence or even airhead types. Bright women have deeper fantasies that they want to act out.
Don't think for one second that that nerdy girl or brainy lady with glasses isn't a total freak behind closed doors. She probably is. Intelligent women are just better at hiding it.
And sex stuff aside, I don't enjoy fluff talk that much. I like in-depth conversations with intelligent females.
But I've given up on ever meeting one. While I've hooked up with a few on vacation, finding one to date in real life has proven very difficult.
JohnChops
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hellsyes! my girlfriend is majoring in the same thing as me and is just as smart, if not smarter. I love it, no one understands my science humor :/ Also agree with mike, i thought this girl was NOT a freak until i got her clothes off and she went 100% freakshow on me. it was awesome
searching solace
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Of course intelligence is an attractive trait. The ability to be able to have an in-depth and intellectual conversation with a girl is very appealing; even more so if they can challenge your point of view.
There's nothing more tedious than a girl who can't/won't talk about anything more than food, gossip and TV.
There's nothing more tedious than a girl who can't/won't talk about anything more than food, gossip and TV.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
No, not too smart. A smart girl has greater potential to fück your world up real fast. Not to mention she's probably waving the feminist flag high and proud. I don't plan on talking about deep thoughts, money or dark matter with a woman. Been there, done that, and it was a complete waste of time. Do that with your boys over a beer.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Uncharted
Master Don Juan
Love em. They tend not to play as many games.
JohnChops
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Bleh correlations don't be squat. Just because something is correlated does not mean they are relatable by cause and effect. E.g. this girl is feminine therefore she is smart.PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
VikingKing
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I don't think he meant that because a woman is feminine, means she is intelligent.JohnChops said:
DonJuanit0
Master Don Juan
After being in a LTR with an immature, not the sharpest tool in the shed, 19 years old girl, I have began to adore smart women!
Like searching solace said, having an in-depth and intellectual conversation with a girl is very appealing; even more so if they can challenge your point of view.
Like searching solace said, having an in-depth and intellectual conversation with a girl is very appealing; even more so if they can challenge your point of view.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.