“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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jcb1772

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Feel like I'm rehashing the typical posts here, but...

There's a girl I really like who's in 1 of my classes, and who I see frequently in the hallway. I haven't talken to her yet, though I've made eye contact more than once.

The kind of girl? She's small, cute, sweet/nice as can be...and smart. Not that I've had much game, but the type of girls I usually get into are more of the girly-girl-shopping-girls. From what I can tell, she's more of the intellectual type...not totally shrouded in books, but not hung up on cell phones and stuff.

So...are the DJing rules any different here? I would assume she'd be more interested in a nice guy than a DJ or jerk. I'm the dreaded "nice guy" I guess...but I hang out with some jerks and I'm not overly, brainy smart.

I've been trying to impress her for the past few weeks by acting more smart/mature, but that's getting old...I want to approach now. Any thoughts on how and when I should do that and what to say?

-j
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Taviii

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Dont try to impress her!!!

To the exact same thing like you would do on another girl.

My curent gf is also very smart, but I just did the same thing like I would do on another girl. Watch out though, this smart girls are getting very atached to you a lot faster!
 

jcb1772

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Well, I'm not trying to impress her in the obvious way...more like just watching myself more carefully.

I really wish I knew how to approach her though, I'm not good at randomly going up to girls who I don't talk to unless we're in a formal situation to break the ice (a la by ourselves waiting for a teacher or something...stuff that never happens). Been reading the bible and stuff, trying to get my courage...I think a huge problem I have is when some kind of opportunity arises, I talk myself out of it...why it will fail. Then afterwards, I regret backing out. Agh what's wrong with me.

Anyway, IF the point that she's smart is a moot one...some more tips on approaching would be helpful. Again, we know who each other are, just never spoke together before. So stuff like "where do I know you from" wouldn't work in this case.
 

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There is not a lot of help that me or someone else on this forum can give you. You just have to grab your balls and go talk to her. The more girls you approach the easier it will get.

So go get her :woo:
 
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