"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Smart chic

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Hey guys im kinda nu to this joint so imma give it a try. Ok there's this gal i met at the mall, she was shoppin for clothes.
I watched her every movements as she hopped from store to store tryna find wat she lykd.
So i finally got tha balls to step up to her and introduced myself,
as usual i gave her my name and she did the same.
She was really mature bout the whole thang she neva gave me attitude at the same tym she neva really showed me that she was impressed.

I didnt want to blow it so i told her that i wanted to gve her space to do her thang and if i kud holla at her sometym,
to which she sed "oh that means you want my nmbr"
I sed yeah an she askd me why she shud gve me her nmbr coz she ddnt huk up her digits 2 strangers, howeva i managed to convince her.

Im now callin her but this gal is totally smart i mean she put up lyk an anti mackin shield, damn she wont show me any signs of interest tho i knw she does coz she wud not have given me her nmbr ryt.
How do i destroy her defences and outsmart her coz im runnin out of ideas.
Pleeeeease help.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sloopy

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Originally posted by bmack
Hey guys im kinda nu to this joint so imma give it a try. Ok there's this gal i met at the mall, she was shoppin for clothes.
I watched her every movements as she hopped from store to store tryna find wat she lykd.
So i finally got tha balls to step up to her and introduced myself,
as usual i gave her my name and she did the same.
She was really mature bout the whole thang she neva gave me attitude at the same tym she neva really showed me that she was impressed.

I didnt want to blow it so i told her that i wanted to gve her space to do her thang and if i kud holla at her sometym,
to which she sed "oh that means you want my nmbr"
I sed yeah an she askd me why she shud gve me her nmbr coz she ddnt huk up her digits 2 strangers, howeva i managed to convince her.

Im now callin her but this gal is totally smart i mean she put up lyk an anti mackin shield, damn she wont show me any signs of interest tho i knw she does coz she wud not have given me her nmbr ryt.
How do i destroy her defences and outsmart her coz im runnin out of ideas.
Pleeeeease help.

Learn to write like a human being and try again.

~Sloopy
 

The Nice Guy is Gone

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Originally posted by bmack
Hey guys im kinda nu to this joint so imma give it a try. Ok there's this gal i met at the mall, she was shoppin for clothes.
I watched her every movements as she hopped from store to store tryna find wat she lykd.
So i finally got tha balls to step up to her and introduced myself,
as usual i gave her my name and she did the same.
She was really mature bout the whole thang she neva gave me attitude at the same tym she neva really showed me that she was impressed.

I didnt want to blow it so i told her that i wanted to gve her space to do her thang and if i kud holla at her sometym,
to which she sed "oh that means you want my nmbr"
I sed yeah an she askd me why she shud gve me her nmbr coz she ddnt huk up her digits 2 strangers, howeva i managed to convince her.

Im now callin her but this gal is totally smart i mean she put up lyk an anti mackin shield, damn she wont show me any signs of interest tho i knw she does coz she wud not have given me her nmbr ryt.
How do i destroy her defences and outsmart her coz im runnin out of ideas.
Pleeeeease help.
It says your 22, so why do you write like a 2 year old?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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He is new to this forum so he has decided to give it a chance. He saw this gir shopping in the mall which he decided to follow and see how she was like. He finally got the corauge to talk to her and gave his name and so did she. She did not show any signs of discomfert with his approach and she was calm about the whole thing. He did not want to ruin the progress he had made with her so he decided to let go about her business. He then ask her if he could give her a call some time. In which she replied "oh that means you need my number" He responded by saying yes and she ask him why should she give him her number because she does not give it out to strangers but he manage to convince to give him her number. He now talk to her but she is really good at covering her interest level in him. He knows that she has interest in him because she gave him her number. How can he get her to show clear signs of interest because he is running out of ideas.
 

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Originally posted by NewHere
He is new to this forum so he has decided to give it a chance. He saw this gir shopping in the mall which he decided to follow and see how she was like. He finally got the corauge to talk to her and gave his name and so did she. She did not show any signs of discomfert with his approach and she was calm about the whole thing. He did not want to ruin the progress he had made with her so he decided to let go about her business. He then ask her if he could give her a call some time. In which she replied "oh that means you need my number" He responded by saying yes and she ask him why should she give him her number because she does not give it out to strangers but he manage to convince to give him her number. He now talk to her but she is really good at covering her interest level in him. He knows that she has interest in him because she gave him her number. How can he get her to show clear signs of interest because he is running out of ideas.

It doesn't really matter whether she shows clear signs of interest or not. She probably just has her defenses up right now. She isn't comfortable with you yet. You should just assume that underneath all that, she wants you. If she doesn't, she will show you by avoiding you or blowing you off. Until then, assume that all systems are go. So you got her number. Now you set up a date. Have coffee or lunch or something. Use this time to build her interest level and make her feel comfortable with you. This will help you move on to the next step.

~Sloopy
 

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Thanks

Thanks guys, i sincerely accept the positive criticism.
A special thanks to my new personal translator "jus kiddin" thanks alot whoever you are.
Thanks sloopy, ill ask her out this weekend.
 

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Re: Thanks

Originally posted by bmack
Thanks guys, i sincerely accept the positive criticism.
A special thanks to my new personal translator "jus kiddin" thanks alot whoever you are.
Thanks sloopy, ill ask her out this weekend.
good luck, slugger!

~Vibe~ (formally known as Sloopy)
 

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Hey no problem bmack just trying to help out. Hopefully everything works out for you and you improve yourself. Remember you come first then money comes second then girls should come third :D .
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Newhere that was mad cool what you did for that guy.
 

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Originally posted by arlanda
The way you write ... not cool :rolleyes:
stfu guys it wasnt hard to read at all.
 

RaWBLooD

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Re: Re: Smart chic

Originally posted by The Nice Guy is Gone
It says your 22, so why do you write like a 2 year old?
wow talk about jumpin on the bandwagon.
 

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Thanks again

Wasup guys. Yeah Vibe you were right man she likes me like i thought and for real she was just tryna get used to me thats all, i definitely entered her comfortable zone and she's now gettin to like me. You deserve a medal.

Yo Rawblood, thanks for havin my back you're tha man keep the fire burnin.

Same to newhere if it wasnt for you i dont think i'd have faced that girl anymore. We need more positive guys like you, to build not to break coz thats what we're all here for right?
 

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Originally posted by NewHere
Hey no problem bmack just trying to help out. Hopefully everything works out for you and you improve yourself. Remember you come first then money comes second then girls should come third :D .

I don't know about you guy. But I would take the girl b4 the money if they showed up in that order
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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Re: Re: Re: Smart chic

Originally posted by RaWBLooD
wow talk about jumpin on the bandwagon.
I didn't read the replies before I posted that, thanks for trying to assume that I follow the crowd though.
 

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i think it should be urself/close family members, then best/good/close friends, then moral/consccience, then maybe the girl next

money is important too but it shouldn't be in the ladder, it's not something we are born for, it's just meant to be a life accesory that make our lives and those arond us better
 

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mmm... lets get back to the topic at hand will we?

yo bmack! have yu read the don juan book? if yu haven't then i suggest yu download a copy pronto. coz it talks all about the aftermath of gettin a hoez # and how to handle the situation when yu call her. Also, don't call her frequently so's yu'll keep her guessing

Good Luck!
 
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