"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Small Town Tips??

RobLB

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I live in a small town (80,000) and I will be 40 yrs. old in Jan. Anybody have any small town tips for meeting women? It seems like everybody in this town knows everybody. I have been having some luck going to art , fund raiser events cause it seems like the women with brains hang out at these functions more. I've gotten a couple of numbers but nothing has panned out yet.

I'm also still trying to get my ex out of my fricking brain!!! This was my story in a previous post.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=85447&highlight=roblb

I have been exercising still and have lost 15 lbs. down to 170 and I feel great but I still get flashbacks from the ex! Plus she is always at these same events so I'm sure she thinks I'm stalking her! I just want to move on and find somebody new. It seems sometimes that I am trying to hard though? The people on this board have helped alot but it seems that most people here live in a large town and are in their 20's. So alot of these meet 50 people in a week tips are not possible in a small town.

Any advice would be great!!!

Thanks,
Lance
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DjDreamer

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You want advice? Get out... move to a bigger town...

lol...

If the little things are giving you trouble just imagine how you would behave when confronted with the bigger things...

I think you just need to work on your inner game... that is all...
 
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