"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Small Town Tips??

RobLB

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I live in a small town (80,000) and I will be 40 yrs. old in Jan. Anybody have any small town tips for meeting women? It seems like everybody in this town knows everybody. I have been having some luck going to art , fund raiser events cause it seems like the women with brains hang out at these functions more. I've gotten a couple of numbers but nothing has panned out yet.

I'm also still trying to get my ex out of my fricking brain!!! This was my story in a previous post.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=85447&highlight=roblb

I have been exercising still and have lost 15 lbs. down to 170 and I feel great but I still get flashbacks from the ex! Plus she is always at these same events so I'm sure she thinks I'm stalking her! I just want to move on and find somebody new. It seems sometimes that I am trying to hard though? The people on this board have helped alot but it seems that most people here live in a large town and are in their 20's. So alot of these meet 50 people in a week tips are not possible in a small town.

Any advice would be great!!!

Thanks,
Lance
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DjDreamer

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You want advice? Get out... move to a bigger town...

lol...

If the little things are giving you trouble just imagine how you would behave when confronted with the bigger things...

I think you just need to work on your inner game... that is all...
 
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