"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Small Town Tips??

RobLB

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I live in a small town (80,000) and I will be 40 yrs. old in Jan. Anybody have any small town tips for meeting women? It seems like everybody in this town knows everybody. I have been having some luck going to art , fund raiser events cause it seems like the women with brains hang out at these functions more. I've gotten a couple of numbers but nothing has panned out yet.

I'm also still trying to get my ex out of my fricking brain!!! This was my story in a previous post.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=85447&highlight=roblb

I have been exercising still and have lost 15 lbs. down to 170 and I feel great but I still get flashbacks from the ex! Plus she is always at these same events so I'm sure she thinks I'm stalking her! I just want to move on and find somebody new. It seems sometimes that I am trying to hard though? The people on this board have helped alot but it seems that most people here live in a large town and are in their 20's. So alot of these meet 50 people in a week tips are not possible in a small town.

Any advice would be great!!!

Thanks,
Lance
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DjDreamer

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You want advice? Get out... move to a bigger town...

lol...

If the little things are giving you trouble just imagine how you would behave when confronted with the bigger things...

I think you just need to work on your inner game... that is all...
 
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