"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Small town sarging?

satelliteparties

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Are there any guys on here that live in small towns or areas that aren't metropolitan areas that are having success?

(Moving isn't an option until at least next May, and can't wait then to date/have sex.)

Just wondering for those guys living in town type areas (towns surrounded by other towns) where they meet quality women and HBs. Is it all a social circle thing and just meeting women through the people you know? Or are there "safe" places where women actually are friendly if you talk to them or places where you might find HBs?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Deicide

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Wal-Mart and local restaraunts are the places to cold approach here(I live in rural West TN). It seems like social circle is the way to go for almost everyone here though. I haven't had much success yet though. And yes, most women are friendly towards my cold approaches here. It's just hard finding single women here.
 

Borknagar

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I have relatives that live in smaller towns. The main difference I notice is if you're sarging and meeting women, especially in bars, if, lets say, you meet 3 women and you live in a larger town like Minneapolis, there is probably a 1-2% chance they know each other. But in a small town, where there are only a couple somewhat busy bars in the town, there is a much much larger chance that the women you meet at night know each other. Like more like a 80% chance, if not know each other know some of the same people then bump it up to 90-95% chance. All depending on the town of course. I learned that the hard way, sarging a really small town,got several make outs and phone numbers only to end up having my cousin know all of them, and the women all had a "meeting" about me in the womens bathroom.
 
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