"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Small town sarging?

satelliteparties

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Are there any guys on here that live in small towns or areas that aren't metropolitan areas that are having success?

(Moving isn't an option until at least next May, and can't wait then to date/have sex.)

Just wondering for those guys living in town type areas (towns surrounded by other towns) where they meet quality women and HBs. Is it all a social circle thing and just meeting women through the people you know? Or are there "safe" places where women actually are friendly if you talk to them or places where you might find HBs?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Deicide

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Wal-Mart and local restaraunts are the places to cold approach here(I live in rural West TN). It seems like social circle is the way to go for almost everyone here though. I haven't had much success yet though. And yes, most women are friendly towards my cold approaches here. It's just hard finding single women here.
 

Borknagar

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I have relatives that live in smaller towns. The main difference I notice is if you're sarging and meeting women, especially in bars, if, lets say, you meet 3 women and you live in a larger town like Minneapolis, there is probably a 1-2% chance they know each other. But in a small town, where there are only a couple somewhat busy bars in the town, there is a much much larger chance that the women you meet at night know each other. Like more like a 80% chance, if not know each other know some of the same people then bump it up to 90-95% chance. All depending on the town of course. I learned that the hard way, sarging a really small town,got several make outs and phone numbers only to end up having my cousin know all of them, and the women all had a "meeting" about me in the womens bathroom.
 
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