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Small town - need advice of interesting things to do ASAP

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well I live in a small town by the santa cruz mountains where there is pretty much nothing to do (or so I believe). Even the local bowling alley shut down for remodeling, so pretty much the only thing around is the movie theater. And of course I don't want things to get repetitive. Anyways, I have things set up to go out and do something (not sure what yet) with my girl this sunday (tomorrow). Now, we went to the movies last saturday, so I don't want to do that again, but I need to figure out something before tomorrow. So any suggestions of stuff to do? :(
 

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Well, since i am an expert on knowing what your town has to offer, i have a suggestion. How about you take her to your house, have her cook you dinner and then while you are watching tv, make her give you a bj, then tell her worthless estrogen dumping guts to go wash the dishes. Ah, but if only dreams came true....
 

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Check out "Date Ideas'' by AmagineEX.
 

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I have the same problem. My town's probably a little bigger than yours but still, the only things really to do are movies, bowling, parks, or go out to eat. Most people go to the movies, but I try to be original and creative. Find someplace where you can get to know her and talk to her a bit.
 

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yeah I was thinking of going to a park, but I guess she went to the park ALL the time with her ex. haha. So scratch that idea. :(

crazykid, i will do that, I thought I had read everything already though, wonder how I missed that one. :confused:
 

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