"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Small town - need advice of interesting things to do ASAP

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well I live in a small town by the santa cruz mountains where there is pretty much nothing to do (or so I believe). Even the local bowling alley shut down for remodeling, so pretty much the only thing around is the movie theater. And of course I don't want things to get repetitive. Anyways, I have things set up to go out and do something (not sure what yet) with my girl this sunday (tomorrow). Now, we went to the movies last saturday, so I don't want to do that again, but I need to figure out something before tomorrow. So any suggestions of stuff to do? :(
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well, since i am an expert on knowing what your town has to offer, i have a suggestion. How about you take her to your house, have her cook you dinner and then while you are watching tv, make her give you a bj, then tell her worthless estrogen dumping guts to go wash the dishes. Ah, but if only dreams came true....
 
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Check out "Date Ideas'' by AmagineEX.
 
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I have the same problem. My town's probably a little bigger than yours but still, the only things really to do are movies, bowling, parks, or go out to eat. Most people go to the movies, but I try to be original and creative. Find someplace where you can get to know her and talk to her a bit.
 
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yeah I was thinking of going to a park, but I guess she went to the park ALL the time with her ex. haha. So scratch that idea. :(

crazykid, i will do that, I thought I had read everything already though, wonder how I missed that one. :confused:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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