"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Small Talk With Co workers

Georgepithyou

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Let's say your in the same office space with a bunch of other workers and you come in the door one Monday afternoon.

How do you normally strike up a natural conversation that goes beyond "how was your weekend".

Not talking about female to workers you want to date, since we can all agree not to "sh*t where you eat".

Things are starting to open up again, at least here in Australia, so it seems like now everyone needs to re adjust to being "social" again.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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user43770

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My co-workers talk about typical things: sports, politics, food, women.

I engage them so far as to not disturb my income.

I don't care about sports, so I blantantly ignore them on that; politics, I'll have a go, but we have similar beliefs, so it's basically a circle-jerk.

Women, I don't even try, because they're light-years away
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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user43770

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Trump has made a lot of people take the red-pill regarding politics, but those same people will bite your head off if you question their sh1tty life decisions.

Reality is a hard pill to swallow.
 
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