"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Small Talk With Co workers

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Let's say your in the same office space with a bunch of other workers and you come in the door one Monday afternoon.

How do you normally strike up a natural conversation that goes beyond "how was your weekend".

Not talking about female to workers you want to date, since we can all agree not to "sh*t where you eat".

Things are starting to open up again, at least here in Australia, so it seems like now everyone needs to re adjust to being "social" again.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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user43770

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My co-workers talk about typical things: sports, politics, food, women.

I engage them so far as to not disturb my income.

I don't care about sports, so I blantantly ignore them on that; politics, I'll have a go, but we have similar beliefs, so it's basically a circle-jerk.

Women, I don't even try, because they're light-years away
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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user43770

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Trump has made a lot of people take the red-pill regarding politics, but those same people will bite your head off if you question their sh1tty life decisions.

Reality is a hard pill to swallow.
 
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