"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Small Talk With Co workers

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Let's say your in the same office space with a bunch of other workers and you come in the door one Monday afternoon.

How do you normally strike up a natural conversation that goes beyond "how was your weekend".

Not talking about female to workers you want to date, since we can all agree not to "sh*t where you eat".

Things are starting to open up again, at least here in Australia, so it seems like now everyone needs to re adjust to being "social" again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My co-workers talk about typical things: sports, politics, food, women.

I engage them so far as to not disturb my income.

I don't care about sports, so I blantantly ignore them on that; politics, I'll have a go, but we have similar beliefs, so it's basically a circle-jerk.

Women, I don't even try, because they're light-years away
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Trump has made a lot of people take the red-pill regarding politics, but those same people will bite your head off if you question their sh1tty life decisions.

Reality is a hard pill to swallow.
 
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